The Survey is Out

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I will write more about his survey later, but here is the nitty gritty. 

In just two weeks, this online group of parents of twice exceptional children in New York City managed to have over 500 people respond to our survey.  I am so proud to be a member here. 

I think the parent comment quote on the title page shows our urgency and why we are so fed up and able to get this done so quickly.  I firmly believe this is something that is not only going to help 2e children but will help others as well.  

“ There isn't currently a place for students who have disabilities but are acceleratedacademically. This results in many challenging behaviors for my son. If we weren't sendin him to private school, I believe that he would be on a pathway to frequent suspensions. Thi feels like a ticket to the schools-to-prison pipeline for students whose families cannot affor private school, services, and attorneys. Teachers working with G & T classes (my so attended one a few years back) do not have special education training. Special educatio classes cannot differentiate up for gifted students. ”

—Survey Respondent

Here is a link to the 2e NYC Survey

-jenn choi


Assistive Technology for 2e Learners at Quad Conference


It's official! I will be leading a workshop for educators and parents of twice-exceptional learners about the many awesome possibilities of assistive technology! I am so excited!

At the time of this blog post publication, I am scheduled to present my workshop, "Assistive Technology for 2E Learners" at 9:45 am to 11:00 am in Room 105 at Cooper Union, 41 Cooper Square on Saturday, May 12, 2018.  See schedule for Breakthroughs Conference here

I will be discussing how to view assistive technology completely from the perspective of the 2e student from home to school and back. Different from what you see on the internet, I will do more than explain all the cool tools out there for the various difficulties our students face.  That information is important and I'll cover that for sure, but what is even more critical are the various changes that are necessary at school and at home to allow kids to thrive with the use of assistive technology. 

It's not Ritalin. Yes, it's very cool, but don't expect a huge jump in productivity overnight. That said, it is powerful and you need to be equipped with the right set of expectations to succeed. Come to my workshop and I'll show you what I mean!  See you on May 12th! 

Go to this link to purchase tix for the Breakthroughs in Twice Exceptional Education Conference 2018


Advocacy Spotlight: Parents of Twice-Exceptional Students in NYC


On Thursday, March 15, 2018, 8 parents of twice-exceptional (2e) students attended the CCSE meeting at Tweed Courthouse.  I was among the 8.  Some of us had never met each other face to face.* We were excited to be there and support the parents who planned in advance to say a few words about the plight of 2e students in the New York City school system. 

The guest speaker of the meeting was Raymond Orlando, Chief Financial Officer, Division of Finance at the NYC Department of Education. I missed a lot of this talk because I arrived late. However, it was my impression that attendees found learning about SAMs to be very interesting.  The chair of the CCSE, Ellen McHugh invited the parents of twice-exceptional group to ask questions to Mr. Orlando.  

One parent asked about how at her elementary school, budgeting was given as the reason why ICT services couldn’t be provided at her school.  Both the speaker and Christina Foti, Chief Executive Director, Division of Specialized Instruction and Student Support, Special Education Office, NYC DOE, attempted to explain how that should not be correct. Ms. Foti explained further and in an attempt to jot down what she was saying, I took out my phone visibly and said that I have trouble taking down notes and to just sum up quickly of what she said, I asked her to say what she said again and hit record:

The Tape and Transcription:

Here is the tape: (please remember, this is NOT entire meeting.  I just wanted to get this down since my hands can't write that fast and it sounded important)

Here is a transcription that is NOT professionally completed. I do not certify this or anything that causes enough trouble to make me have to take this down. I have noted uncertainty with "?" and sometimes I will say why I think the verbage is unclear ie. two people were talking at the same time. 

Here is the little snippet.  Again, I don't believe you can submit this as evidence but maybe it can help you open up some doors.  Good luck!  (FYI- Parent 1 is me)


Christina Foti: In fairness, if we could have a conversation after the meeting

Parent 1: Oh, but like really quickly, to sum up what you said, you said that if students are having trouble, they shouldn’t feel alone, if students are having trouble, where should they call?

Christina Foti: Sure. No parent or student should ever feel alone. If you ever feel alone, you know.. Our hope is that you are able to resolve things at the school level. This is de-escalation.

Parent 1: Right.

Christina Foti: If you cannot resolve things at the school level, then we ask that you certainly reach out to your superintendent.

Parent 1: Reach out to your superintendent- that’s step number 1, after going to the school, correct?

Christina Foti: Yeah, and if you’ve had a conversation with your principal? (someone coughed) Sometimes parents are worried about the relationship that they developed with their teacher and they’re worried about that next step you and they also recognize that contacting a superintendent after you’ve spoken to a principal is also a scary step.  Nonetheless, people, you know educators want to serve families, right? And serve students and so if you ever feel like you are encountering roadblocks along the way, the special education inbox, it’s is an inbox monitored by my office.

Parent 1: Your name is… I’m sorry..

Christina Foti: Christina Foti. And what we do is we get back to every parent within 24 - 48 hours just to say we have it and we are looking into this. We resolve those issues as soon as possible, the way that we resolve them is we work with the Field Support Center and the Superintendent and the school itself to resolve issues that are unresolvable. If it’s a larger policy issue, we work with advocates and advocacy organizations to really determine what citywide policies are going to work with that and we look to the CCSE to be partners in that process and we take what we get from meetings like this and really use them to help make shifts citywide.

Noah Gotbaum, CCSE Member: How would you suggest, there is clearly a group of (inaudible because two people are talking at once) there is clearly a desire for a program ..

Ellen McHugh, CCSE Chair: (Inaudible because two people are talking at once) Are we finished with budget questions ladies and gentlemen?

Parent 2: I have a budget question. Can we also talk about the mirror image of that? We have a child in a GT school that doesn’t have an ICT class and (inaudible) for one reason or another.  Now we have him in general ed with an IEP class that’s like awesome but it doesn’t work his gift or whatever you want to call it. I mean it doesn’t support that so maybe that’s another SAM? Like so, you push in the service for the kind of giftedness which is a kind of special need and require service special education and maybe that’s cheaper and easier because that’s like a little 20% weight or whatever you have there and rather than trying to kind of invent something and for one reason or another is it happening in the GT schools, I think it would probably be good if it did, you know because there is nothing magical about the GT program, some of them. Some of them are just like one class in an otherwise general ed school and you got bright kids in the class but there is nothing all that..  But you know bringing some services to – I mean we’re in this weird position of looking at his report card and being disappointed when he does well

Ellen McHugh: Can I ask you to separate out your question– It’s a budget question?

Parent 2: Yeah it kind of is a budget question. Where is that sort of SAM, I guess for the special need which we all kind of see in our children where they need all their support they need in an IEP setting. It’s like amazing - like they get the behavior stuff that he’s going through but he’s a little, I’m not saying he’s on his own, I mean he’s got us and stuff but he’s on his own from an academic perspective. He can do this stuff that is put in front of him but it’s not getting a lot more, right? It’s like the mirror of that. They both work.

Christina Foti: I hear your questions. I think our process is about inviting this type of feedback from parents, from the community, we are open to a policy conversation around this very topic that both of you are bringing up and would be happy to do that. I think let’s work with the CCSE to set that up if that’s something that the CCSE agrees to, but we’d be happy to have a larger conversation. If you have specific individual issues and I appreciate the sharing of your stories but if you have specific issues that need attention now, Lauren and I are here from the Special Education Office and we’d be happy to take your information.

Ellen McHugh: Is there any other specific budget questions?

Parent 1: Yes, specific budget absolutely. If there is a student who, ICT services are usually given to students in grades 6-12 for core classes only, but if a student requires ICT services for non-core classes, is that a budget issue?

Christina Foti: No

Raymond Orlando: Absolutely Not

Christina Foti: If a student requires ICT services for non-core classes and (somewhat inaudible chatter ensued here).. on the IEP then the budget follows the IEP. You know from Ray’s perspective, the budget follows whatever is on the IEP.

Parent 1: So it’s not a budget issue.

Christina Foti: It’s not a budget issue.

Ellen McHugh: Any more for budget? One more here.

Parent 3: Who decides when you have enough kids for certain classes so a principal might say we don’t have enough for an ICT class. What does that mean? I feel like there’s a really slippery slope.

Christina Foti: Our hope is that a principal would do that in conjunction with enrollment, then his ___ Field Support Center to see um when we open specialized programs for example we have heat maps that we do and an example of a specialized program is an ASD program, the ASD Nest program so we look at heat maps on the application progress from the Special Education officers’ perspective that we open up based on need but from a school’s perspective though, in terms of making school based decisions. Our hope is that they be working with enrollment, and field support center and the superintendent to make decisions about what programs to offer.

Ellen McHugh: Correct me if I’m wrong but state guidance says up to 40% doesn’t it must be forty percent so in theory you can have 39%.

Christina Foti: Yes, Yeah.

Ellen McHugh: So it’s up to 40%. It doesn’t have to be 40%.

Christina Foti: And if there are plaguing issues that you have at your school you’d like to us to take into, we would do that in partnership with the school. It would not be… it would only be in the service of exploring what is possible. We would be happy to take that partnership on.


The Problems, Suggestions, and A Good Story:

Soon after those questions were answered, the meeting opened to questions from attendees and that is when a couple of us spoke up. I recorded as much as I could and another parent took over recording when I went up to speak.  Here is the video below. 


*I'm not including names here, but I will include them if I get permission later on. 

Next Steps? 

Oh yes, there are. 

If you are a parent of 2e kids in the NYC area, you can join us to hear updates on the movement to find more appropriate education for 2e kids.  Here's our group page or just use the box below.


NYC High School Admissions for 2e KIDS - The Workshop

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It's here!

We've settled on a date and location. Yippee!

The 2e Guide to NYC Public High School Admissions Process will be:

2/1/2018, Thursday, 6 PM

820 Washington Avenue
(Between .St. John's Place and Lincoln Place)
Purchase tix here.


Parents of "twice-exceptional" children (gifted with special needs) know their child needs an environment that engages their child's particular intellectual curiosities while supporting their special learning needs. Finding both components in a singular school is TOUGH. Parent of two 2e children, journalist, and educator, Jenn Choi will share her methods for researching schools and show you how to engage children to make this process a very successful experience for them. Get ready to find the right schools and boost your kids up to be eligible for the schools they want the most. This workshop will not focus on entry into Specialized High Schools (SHSAT exam) such as Stuyvesant, Bronx Science, etc.

Specific areas to address in the workshop:

  • planning on meeting executive functioning needs in high school

  • assessing how hard it is to get into the school of choice

  • creating a way for your child is take part in the process successfully


This is a parents only event.

Seating is extremely limited.

No Walk-Ins Will Be Accepted

If you have not received materials to read prior to the workshop, please email Jenn at:




Fill out the 2e NYC High School Admissions Workshop Survey

 I love watching kids talk to kids about schools.  photo : Jenn Choi

I love watching kids talk to kids about schools. photo: Jenn Choi

After an exhausting three months, I handed in my son's application to enter a New York City public high school this coming September 2018. 

This process is so incredibly flawed, but through it, I've learned more about my child, my child's current school, other schools, teachers, and the department of education in my city which happens to be the biggest school district in the country.  

More importantly, my son, my husband, and I feel good about the choices. Nothing is perfect, but within the three months of researching and visiting schools, we know we did our best. That said, ask us if we think we should have started researching earlier.  

Oh yes, we should have. Sure I had a lot on my mind when he was in 7th grade, but I believe I could have squeezed some more work into this process. I know this because I was learning non-stop throughout the 3 months, even until the last week before submitting his ranked list of 12.  In manyways it was a very heavy duty part-time job.  Is that unfair? Absolutely, but the show must go on.

 NYC High School Admissions Fair- no one tells you that not all the schools come to this one. photo: Jenn Choi

NYC High School Admissions Fair- no one tells you that not all the schools come to this one. photo: Jenn Choi

I had a very wise friend who taught me everything she knew in September, so I was already in good shape, but with a child who has special needs and also needs a certain amount of academic rigor to stay motivated, I should have started my research earlier. 

So here I am, a head chock full of useful nuggets waiting to be spilled over. I am taking a quick survey for 6th and 7th grade parents who want to learn what I learned.  I also want to share what worked when trying to keep my kid motivated and productively participating in the process. 

Here is the form.  Just 3 Questions! Hope to meet you!